Your personality is the reflection of your inner self. Your personality is not just how you look, it’s how you feel, think, and behave. The way you carry yourself, the way you talk, and your expressions need to be combined together in a manner to have a lasting effect on people.
Here are some suggestions that you can inculcate in you to build an attractive personality.
Impressive Social Skills
A good social behaviour sprinkled with effective communication skills contributes to your personality. You need to create good relationships with people around you. Get consciously positive from within and let your actions and behaviour speak. Don’t say anything that would hurt the other person. Choose your words wisely focusing on the understanding of the other person. This will help you build an impressive personality.
Create a lasting Smile
Some smiles have a direct impact on people’s minds. You should give a smile to everyone who has eye contact with you. Practise not to end up giving creepy or inviting smiles to people. A too friendly smile will make you look like an easy going person and a too formal smile will make you look stubborn. You don’t need either. To build an attractive personality, you need to work upon giving a warm smile.
Dress Well and Take Care of YourselfInvest in your wardrobe. Wear clothes according to your body type. Never wear clothes that make you uncomfortable in any way. You should both feel and look confident. Put good efforts to look effortless, that means you should not overdress.
Exercise daily to stay fit and healthy. Take care of your skin and teeth. Eat good and you will look good naturally. Stay happy, keep yourself away from negativity and you will look radiant from within.
Be a Good Listener
People fancy someone who listens to them. They don’t need your advice, guidance or even experience, instead, they are looking for someone who listens. Remember not to speak when someone is speaking, instead, give them all your attention and nod at places where you agree with them. If you disagree with something, let the person finish and then you can have your turn to express.
Be Humble
Confidence is good but don’t let that confidence turn into narcissism. Learn to see the good in people and this will let you become kind and humble. Appreciate the hard work of others and complement them on their achievements and success. Your humble nature will not only enhance your personality but also, inspire others to reflect humbleness in their own attitude.
Make Others feel Comfortable in your Company
This doesn’t mean you need to do everything for others. This means that you should show respect towards others. Offer your help when you find them in trouble. Ensure that you don’t present yourself as easily accessible. You should have your own self respect and it should be reflected in your behaviour. Make people around you feel confident and protected. They should feel that they have spent their time around a good person.
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You won’t disagree with me if I say, “All successful people have an attractive personality and all attractive personalities are humble.” Several researchers have proven that people who are successful read for about 4-5 hours a day. Reading will make you grow from within and help you understand yourself and others better.
Follow these simple but effective measures to develop yourself into an attractive personality.
